I tell my Son often that being a person with integrity is not just about who you are in front of others, its the person you are when people are not in your presence. Are you a trustworthy person? Are you honest or loyal? People often act a certain way with their friends, family, or colleagues but it may be a totally different story when they are alone or with others. What are you saying when they are not around? Do you wish them well in-person but speak ill-will behind their back? Loyalty has so many layers depending on your interaction or relationship. Speak your truth but be consistent and sincere. Don’t waiver to impress others so they can like you more. It can be tough sometimes but if you’re transparent in your true form it’s easy to stay consistent and with good character.