We are and have been in the era of Ghosting. The concept of completely going missing all of a sudden. It could happen in any of our relationships with friends, family, partners, etc. It’s hard for some people to face the reality of the situation and communicate so it’s easier to just disappear. It can be very hurtful on the receiving end. One day you’re connecting with someone on a regular basis and the next they have physically and digitally disappeared. If its permanent, make every effort to openly communicate how you feel and the need to disconnect. You have to know if it’s not fulfilling and giving you everything you need.
On the flip side there is a need to take a break, not completely ghosting but just a timeout for yourself. In previous Blogs I mentioned personality traits, some of us are introverts and/or extroverts depending on the situation and environment. Like many people, I don’t operate well in a noisy environment – metaphorically. If there is something I’m going through or need to decompress and think – I need to be a mini-ghost lol. Sometimes we need to cave-in, take a break whether it’s to think or heal. One of the most precious things in life to me are your people that know you and reach out when you’re quiet. Do what’s required to be the best version of yourself! Everything good in life is slow growing – with patience, love, empathy, and with intermission if needed. Your loved ones will understand. If you’re on the receiving end – grant your people grace and understand they are going through something that requires a timeout. God is working on them too!