Change is essential as we move forward in life, we need to explore, improve, and evolve. Of course, change for the better…not the worst lol. Change and evolution for everyone is different. In our earlier years perhaps, it meant to be organized, effective, start a career, saving, etc. However, change in the second half of our lives may involve being patient, more consistent, rest, and preparing for retirement.
The type of change we don’t want to consider is changing to fit a mold, to make others happy, to conform….an uncomfortable change. I once had someone in the universe for many years that would be happy if I was a complete mirror….selfsame. Speak and think alike, well you get the point. It wasn’t until much later in my life that I realized how much I’m fitting this square peg into a round hole.
As cheesy as it sounds, I believe in the saying “Be You – the world will adjust”. Make the necessary changes only for yourself. Live life in your truest form. It’s part of life to absorb lessons learned and grow to evolve and change. Continue to do that, enjoying life, loving patiently, and working on yourself. Be your natural self! If you are outspoken with a hard shell but light up a room. Do it without any apologies. If you’re a sensitive, affectionate, and softy like me that can be fierce when needed lol. Well, again do it without any regret and apologies. Be You – the world will indeed adjust!